Synthesizing Fears of Abandonment & Engulfment in Relationship

Opposites attract. While this can be very complementary and balancing in intimate relationships, it can also be very challenging while the pain body is healing. This means that two people can come together with gifts that offer the opportunity to build great synergy between them, but what can stand in the way of that creativity are the core fears that are opposing each other: fear of abandonment and fear of […] Read more »

When Togetherness is Too Much

Finding the balance in togetherness can be tough. You want connection but sometimes it just feels like too much – too much talking, too many questions, and too much closeness. You feel anxious when you’re required to spend too much time with your partner/spouse. It feels smothering. If this describes you, then unlike many people who fear abandonment, you fear being engulfed. For you, the childhood wounds of not having […] Read more »

The Key to Healing Abandonment

It’s quite common to feel abandoned. Whether you were separated accidentally from Mom/Dad as a child, felt left behind during their divorce, or shaken by the death of your parent, the trauma lingers. Perhaps you felt alone and unsupported when your needs weren’t met repeatedly. Abandonment remains emotionally painful if what you learn as a child is a mis-trust of others, uncertainty that someone will be ‘there’ for you when […] Read more »

A Simple Act of Love

Children need to hear it. Animals rejoice in hearing it. Spouses, partners, friends and cherished ones certainly appreciate it when it’s said. And so it’s no less important to say this to ourselves – “I love you”. But do we? It’s fairly commonly understood that in our spiritual journey the primary lesson we’re here to learn is self-love. Self-forgiveness comes a close second and they are braided together with grace […] Read more »

It’s Time to Think Outside the Cage

Highly Recommended Viewing for the Love of Animals   It’s Time to Think Outside the Cage | Charu Chandrasekera | TEDxUniversityofWindsor Animal testing is largely disfavored globally, but the world is struggling to find alternatives. Dr. Charu Chandrasekera’s research has proven that there is not only a viable replacement, but one that is cheaper, faster, and more relevant to humans. Dr. Charu Chandrasekera is the founding executive director of Canada’s […] Read more »

Pressure to Flow with the Natural Laws

When we’re flowing with life we know it. Tasks seem effortless and things go smoothly. We feel light, and we take things in stride, no matter what comes our way. I distinctly remember one experience where in one afternoon I prepared a workshop, created all my materials to display at a separate conference, and wrote another presentation. I chanted and danced too! Despite the deadline, the hours of work ahead […] Read more »

5G – Understanding its Dangers

For your discernment, here is a good summary of understanding the negative health effects of the 5G technology, far more harmful than current wireless or cell phone use. 5G Apocalypse-The Extinction Event Any information provided through these links is not intended to be taken as medical advice, binding or directive advice, or endorsement. Each user of this information is fully responsible and accountable for all their responses, actions and arising […] Read more »

Grieving Our Losses and Humanity’s Fall

I remember it. More accurately I would say that I’ve felt it – the fall of humanity’s consciousness. I have felt the excruciating anguish, the pain, and the intense cosmic rage. This trauma is in the collective memory. It’s resided in our cells all along, but now, it’s more accessible than ever before, creating both liberation and challenges. The planetary consciousness is awakening into soul embodiment, the 5th dimension of […] Read more »

Be Wonder-full to Heal Your Ego

I remember watching my baby great-niece notice her finger the first time. Captivated, she swept it slowly through the air and followed it closely with her eyes. Enthralled, she did it three more times and giggled with sheer delight. It’s this capacity to wonder about herself and her world that will propel her in her growth and brilliant discoveries. But this is true for everyone! Our amazement is our God-given […] Read more »

Choosing Life or Anti-Life

There are times when we have to choose between what’s going to move us forward or what’s going to hold us back. Often, we do want to move forward. We want to be free of the wounding, the pain, the dogma, the “small me”, the matrix and that which simply makes life dull. But then when it actually comes time to choose, we hold back and think that we’re better […] Read more »