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Natural Forgiveness

By Amaeil / March 1, 2013

Our capacity to forgive rests on a foundation of empathy and reverence for the sacredness of our fellow wo/man. Forgiveness is heart-centered, and when it brings about unity it’s entirely profound; it is the externalization of the beloved Mother/Father God in Divine union, the manifestation of Christ consciousness. Forgiveness is often predicated on the concept that there is some wrong-doing which must be assuaged. We frequently use judgments of ‘right’… Read more

Changing the Fear of Change

By Amaeil / November 1, 2012

In the waves of change there is an undertow that can pull you down. Unless you are consciously participating with the flow of the waters these days, you can lose yourself in one of life’s most debilitating obstacles to liberation – fear of change. It’s not to be taken lightly. The subconscious mind has a vast database under the topic of “change”. Ego judges these countless experiences with change as… Read more

Voiding the Victim

By Amaeil / December 1, 2011

If asked to describe victim consciousness, many people would express their understanding that it’s a state of helplessness, or being taken advantage of, or living from a viewpoint of suffering. This state of being is also most commonly acknowledged when abuse is being perpetrated on another. Yet, in all my years of healing facilitation, I’ve come to witness many more manifestations of victim consciousness that are much more subtle, and… Read more

Adapting and Accepting Change

By Amaeil / November 1, 2011

Last month I wrote about the three stages of transition (awareness, acceptance and action) to help you during these times of immense change on Earth. Currently the ego’s perception of reality is being dismantled, and corruption, mental dis-ease, dysfunction, enslavement, deception, and false dependency are becoming increasingly transparent. All areas of our lives are being affected: jobs, relationships, health, finances, material possessions and social status. This instability in our outer… Read more

Core Pattern Release & Sounding to Find Your Voice

By Amaeil / May 1, 2011

"Finding your voice" is a small phrase with big meaning. When it happens, it feels like emerging from a cocoon; you’re strong but vulnerable, beautiful, and unquestionably free! In order to find your voice, you must acknowledge that it has been lost. Sometimes people witness or experience something so traumatic that a part of them shuts down. Many children receive shaming messages such as "don't be so loud", or "don’t speak unless you’re spoken to". Gradually, fragments of themselves go astray… Read more

Self-compassion

By Amaeil / May 1, 2011

(definition) Self-compassion: you in your fullest potential - right now! When we feel compassion for others, we open our hearts to bring love to suffering in the desire to alleviate it for them. Compassion for others is: * noticing their suffering * feeling with them in their pain * responding with kindness no matter what the circumstances * acknowledging the imperfection of the human condition, and loving anyway We are a… Read more

Releasing Self-Victimization in Patriarchal Domination

By Amaeil / January 1, 2011

In my blog, Releasing Patriarchal Domination, I shared that the distorted male principle on our planet is being transformed at an atomic level, and the release of patriarchal domination is rising to the surface in the collective consciousness. This is shifting out elitism, power-mongering, abuse and victimization. While we witness the control structures tumble, it’s important to remember that our responsibility to assist in this transformation lies in our own… Read more

Releasing Struggle

By Amaeil / July 1, 2010

Struggle is a very old paradigm that many generations have believed is a necessary part of life. That energy continues to manifest as difficulty with relationships, money, and many more aspects of human living, including spiritual development. Of late, as more awaken to the truth that struggle is control programming, palpable feelings of despair, exasperation at relentless patterns, and seed fears from earlier civilizations are being pushed to the surface… Read more

The Healing Tree of Beliefs

By Amaeil / July 1, 2009

Understanding the root cause of life’s challenges with energy psychotherapy and core pattern release. Do you ever wonder why some of our behaviours and habits can be so stubborn? Why do they seem to show up again and again as an unyielding pattern? Perhaps the following analogy will provide some insight. Your belief system can be imagined as a massive tree – the kind that has been growing for years.… Read more

Managing our Emotional Transition

By Amaeil / June 1, 2009

Emotions - they come and go. They can be uplifting or take us on the most painful journey of the human experience. With the surges of energy on our planet now we can feel their intensity. Ego revels in today’s uncertainty. Your inner child still weeps for love. And ancient rage, anxiety and fear are gaining momentum for their purging. As human creatures, these emotions belong to us, so it’s… Read more