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Are You Choosing Courage?

By Amaeil / June 1, 2012

We are living in a time that calls for our courage. This is a beckoning to our hearts, not our minds. Courage wells from a deep commitment within to create change. It does not involve any pushing, only the trust of Divine support through and through. Courage is often misconstrued. We tend to think of needing to find courage for formidable circumstances, those that we view as herculean in nature… Read more

Voiding the Victim

By Amaeil / December 1, 2011

If asked to describe victim consciousness, many people would express their understanding that it’s a state of helplessness, or being taken advantage of, or living from a viewpoint of suffering. This state of being is also most commonly acknowledged when abuse is being perpetrated on another. Yet, in all my years of healing facilitation, I’ve come to witness many more manifestations of victim consciousness that are much more subtle, and… Read more

Adapting and Accepting Change

By Amaeil / November 1, 2011

Last month I wrote about the three stages of transition (awareness, acceptance and action) to help you during these times of immense change on Earth. Currently the ego’s perception of reality is being dismantled, and corruption, mental dis-ease, dysfunction, enslavement, deception, and false dependency are becoming increasingly transparent. All areas of our lives are being affected: jobs, relationships, health, finances, material possessions and social status. This instability in our outer… Read more

Self-compassion

By Amaeil / May 1, 2011

(definition) Self-compassion: you in your fullest potential - right now! When we feel compassion for others, we open our hearts to bring love to suffering in the desire to alleviate it for them. Compassion for others is: * noticing their suffering * feeling with them in their pain * responding with kindness no matter what the circumstances * acknowledging the imperfection of the human condition, and loving anyway We are a… Read more

Accepting Yourself and Others

By Amaeil / September 1, 2009

We all look at the world through the personal lens of our own experience. Some people see themselves and others as compassionate and well-meaning, whereas others view and act with judgment, anger or fear. The perception we generally uphold has everything to do with how we feel about ourselves, and ourselves in relation to others. Ask yourself, “From which paradigm do I operate my life?”: I’m not O.K., you’re O.K.… Read more

The Divine Design of Dying

By Amaeil / September 1, 2008

The summer winds down. The new school years begins, and work resumes in earnest. The leaves begin to turn, and nature reminds us that "to everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose, under heaven....a time to be born, a time to die." Or perhaps the lyrics from this 50's song by Pete Seeger could be "....a time to die, a time to be reborn...". That, of course, would depend… Read more